People don't always see what's right in front of them. What some people think is the obvious path or choice isnt always there. Many people dont notice what they have inside them to bring to the table. Yeah I may sound like I'm stating the obvious to you but to others they probably think it's a load of crap.
For me I know this is true because i've lived years in that blindness and over coming obsticle after obsticle and draggin along untill its done has shone me that what i thought I could do was no where near what I can do.
I thought that I was unpopular and therefore uncool since highschool. But popular is technically just about the number of people you know and have as friends. What i didn't see was that i had a ton of friends, they just werent the sterotypical A crowd. They were my friends right there being my support system.
Some people don't have a lot of friends or any at all. I went through periods where i didn't have them either. What you do have to do is look at the friend you do have even if its just one person and realize that this person chose to spend time with you rather than do something else with thier time. You are special enough to them to become part of thier day.
Now Life choices and Paths others don't see are hard because nine times out of ten you don't see these things for yourself you see it for other people.What we as observers must realize is they may not see it because they have a blindness they want to over come or believe honestly that thier way is better.
Still Honestly I've learned somethings for myself that I think need to be said.
-You don't need a boyfriend to be whole
-You are who YOU MAKE YOURSELF
-if you rely on a man to define you then you will disapear and become some one even
you don't know.
-If your scared of being alone know this YOU ARE NOT ALONE. "if we are all alone then we are all together in that. "--P.S I Love You
-There is always someone there cheering you one no matter how alone you feel.
-Maybe it's time to listen to the people shoutting "LET ME HELP YOU" from the sidelines
-HAVING FUN does NOT mean getting Drunk. YOu can have a great time in college compeltely sober, I do it everyday and every weekend
- Making out with or Having sex with every guy who shows the least bit intrest isn't always the safest thing. Especially when they are twice your size or their bicep is bigger than your head.
-Always go to parties with a friend never go alone...if you do your asking for trouble of all kinds.
-If you can find a designated driver ...DO NOT DRINK AND DRIVE.
-YOU ARE PERFECT JUST THE WAY YOU ARE. you don't have to please anyone but yourself so the real question is "are you happy?" I know what i just rattled off is talking about changing who you are but what i mean is You don't have to wear certain things and conform to be perfect or special.
-No body is any better or any worse than anyone else
-it is not the destination that makes us happy but rather the journey.
-There is no Stopping or Starting only doing
-I tend to rant
-If Any of you need a helping hand at discovering who you really are I'm an open comment box/ ear if you want to talk
I hope this sheds a little light on to why you may be unhappy and maybe I can help you fix it.
